Women’s Soccer Head Coach Resigns Amid Allegations of Verbal Abuse Toward Student-Athletes 

Editor’s Note: Since this article’s publication, a group of women’s soccer alumnae issued a petition in support of former head coach Matt Garrett, which can be read about here.

By Vincent DiFonzo, Editor-in-Chief, and Ella Prieto, Managing Editor

The head coach of the Gettysburg College women’s soccer team has resigned amid accusations of verbal and mental abuse targeting student-athletes on the team. Coach Matt Garrett resigned on Friday, Nov. 1, announcing his decision during the team’s practice. 

Garrett has worked as the team’s head coach since 2007. Before Gettysburg, he worked as an assistant coach for the Division II men’s soccer team at Slippery Rock University and earlier at Robert Morris University, a Division I team. 

His decision to resign followed 31 team members’ attempt to meet with Athletics Director Mike Mattia regarding their concerns about Garrett. That meeting was reportedly canceled less than an hour before it was set to begin, triggering team members to walk to President Bob Iuliano’s office and demand that they be heard. 

In a statement to The Gettysburgian, Chief Communications and Marketing Officer Jamie Yates stated that Iuliano “assured the student-athletes that a meeting with the Athletics Director would take place, and that the situation they described would be promptly addressed.” 

Later that day, Garrett announced he was resigning at the team’s practice, citing that he had been previously considering leaving his position and that he “does not enjoy being around the players or parents,” according to one team member. This “allowed him to sidestep accountability,” the team member stated. 

That evening, a parent petition that demanded the immediate resignation or termination of Garrett was emailed to Iuliano, Mattia and Garrett. This petition also demanded Garrett’s removal from the team’s final game of the season, which was held the following day, Nov. 2, against Ursinus. The petition was signed by 69 parents representing 36 players. 

Additionally, the petition was sent to Vice President of Enrollment J. Carey Thompson, who oversees Mattia. In the early hours of Nov. 2, the petition was forwarded to The Gettysburgian. 

“The toxic atmosphere together with hostile environment cultivated by Matt Garrett, head coach of the women’s soccer program at Gettysburg, are now untenable,” the petition reads. “Our #1 concern as parents is the health and well-being of our daughters, both physically and mentally, when we send them off to college. Matt Garrett’s [verbally] abusive nature and strident character have destroyed the confidence, damaged the psychology and stolen the love of soccer from countless student athletes.”

The petition also alleges that attempts have been made by Athletics to “rehabilitate” Garrett through probation and counseling. The Gettysburgian reached out to the College, who were unable to confirm or deny this, citing that it is a “personnel issue.” 

The culture he has curated is antithetical to every ‘value, expectation, and standard’ in the coaches and players Program Standards & Expectations Handbook,” reads the petition. “He harshly enforces it on his players while remaining unapologetically unaccountable to it himself. The coach/player relationship dynamic is one of oppressor/oppressed. One of abuser/victim. This is not hyperbole.”

The petition continues, “The undersigned parents to this Petition are prepared to cite their respective laundry lists of unacceptable encounters and incidents their daughters have had to endure in the presence of Matt Garrett, both individually and in a team setting, the volume of which are likely to fill up your email inbox.” 

A team member further elaborated, “The statement from parents describing Coach Garrett’s ‘abusive nature and strident character’ as damaging to student-athletes confidence, psychology, and love of soccer resonates strongly with our experience.” 

Following the petition’s demand that Garrett not be allowed to attend the team’s final game against Ursinus, Garrett texted the team, stating that he and the College decided against his attendance at the game. He cited “very disturbing emails sent last night” as the reason, referring to the parent’s petition. 

The canceled Friday meeting with was eventually rescheduled, and team members met with Mattia on Wednesday, Nov. 6 and were allowed to air their grievances regarding Garrett’s conduct. At this meeting, “[Mattia] let us share all of our experiences and we talked about the qualities we want in a new head coach,” according to one team member. 

Former women’s soccer captain and alumnus Molly O’Shea ’23 addressed the allegations in a statement to The Gettysburgian. 

“While I respect the personal experiences of every player, I have to strongly disagree with the petition and the incredibly damaging language it uses,” said O’Shea. “The petition does not reflect my own experience on the team, nor my interactions with Coach Garrett.”

She also spoke highly of his “unwavering passion for the game” and the hours he dedicated to cultivating the players, including inviting them to his home for team dinners. O’Shea believes that the frustrations of players is due to the College’s “mandatory ‘developmental’ or ‘junior varsity’ for many of the teams” which was installed with “the goal of increasing college enrollment numbers,” according to O’Shea. 

Reached for comment on the developmental program, Thompson said that it began three years ago and it involved the expansion of the men’s and women’s soccer teams to “provide more opportunities for talented students to attend Gettysburg College while being able to participate in the sport they are passionate about.” 

He also explained the program was planned as a “three-year-pilot,” and they will be “assessing the impact of the project in the coming weeks.” 

“Despite nearly doubling the number of players on the roster, Coach Garrett received no additional coaching support,” continued O’Shea. “As a result, more players were left frustrated by limited playing time, and the quality of attention given to each individual player decreased. It’s only natural that this frustration extended to the parents as well. The blame for this situation does not lie with Coach Garrett, the players, or the parents — it lies squarely with Gettysburg College and the Athletics Department. Expecting coaches to manage such a large group of athletes without proper support is not just unrealistic; it’s irresponsible and shows a clear disregard for the players’ needs.”

Another alumnus and former captain on the team contacted The Gettysburgian to express concern about the petition, saying that the petition signatories “fail to acknowledge their own bias in the situation and the incredible influence that Coach Garrett has had on so many players throughout his 18-year long career at Gettysburg.” The Gettysburgian reached out to the alumnus for additional comment and did not receive a response. 

A student currently on the team, Petra Brown ’26, forwarded The Gettysburgian a copy of a letter, originally sent to Mattia on Nov. 1, detailing her experiences with Garrett. 

“After 18 years, he is finally being exposed for his malicious, manipulative and abusive behavior which he has inflicted on his players on and off the field, and that has had different yet detrimental effects on all of us,” wrote Brown. “Every minor mistake from my teammates and I was met with yelling that left me feeling afraid to even touch the ball. I felt that I completely forgot how to play the sport I loved since I was five years old.”

The Gettysburgian reached out to Garrett for comment on the allegations and received no response. On Tuesday, Nov. 5, Garrett’s lawyer, Christian Dennie, issued a cease-and-desist letter to The Gettysburgian, threatening legal action if The Gettysburgian continued to pursue and publish information on the story, including any further attempts by The Gettysburgian to contact Garrett to obtain his side of the story. In this letter, Dennie wrote that Garrett denies the allegations. 

“There is absolutely no truth to these accusations,” Dennie wrote.

When reached for comment on the resignation, Yates said, “The College is aware of the concerns raised by some student-athletes and parents about the coaching and leadership style on the women’s soccer team. We have heard from students about how it has affected their passion for a sport they love and for their overall experience on the team.”  

Yates added that the College is “responding with the utmost care and seriousness.”  

“While the College cannot speak to the current or past details of any personnel situation, the Athletics Department actively works to foster a respectful and supportive environment throughout the program.  When concerns about athletics personnel are raised, the Department responds with actions appropriate to the situation, which may include leadership training, counseling, and corrective action plans, among many other options,” the statement concluded.

The Gettysburgian has acquired additional letters dated in 2022 that outline instances of verbal abuse by Garrett. These letters detail complaints made by students against Garrett’s conduct dating back as far as October of that year. 

The letters accuse Garrett of insulting team members during games, including one instance where he called the team “the dumbest in the world.” At another game, Garrett allegedly stated “we don’t have any talent on this team” during a pre-game locker room speech.

“I need to start over with my recruiting and get rid of everyone here because you all are terrible except for two players,” Garrett allegedly stated at another game in the fall of 2022, according to one of the letters. 

Another letter, sent by the parents of one team member to Iuliano in November 2022, alleges that Garrett “belittles,” “humiliates,” “shouts,” “scapegoats,” “rejects,” “isolates,” “threatens” and “ignores” student-athletes. The letter cites examples for each of these accusations. 

“The behavior of Coach Matthew Garrett toward his team has put the mental health and well-being of his players — including our daughter, at great risk,” reads the letter. “It is our understanding that Gettysburg College has been notified of some of these systemic behaviors and incidents by past players, parents and college employees. We have been disappointed in the school’s lack of response to these complaints and utter disregard for the well-being of these female athletes.”  

In a letter sent to Mattia in 2022, a parent alleges that Garrett created a toxic environment on the team. 

“Coach Garrett often promoted a toxic culture lashing out at individuals or the whole team from the sidelines of games, at practice and during meetings. [Their daughter] became a frequent target of his negative attention this season, as she tried to work through injury and avoid humiliation,” the letter reads. “He’s singled her out multiple times in front of the team telling her how slow she is — often yelling it from the sidelines so even her grandparents had the pleasure of hearing her humiliated.”

With Garrett’s resignation, Athletics is now conducting a nationwide search for a new head coach. The College is “working through the terms of [Garrett’s] resignation, including his final day,” according to Yates. 

“We will be conducting a national search to find his replacement shortly. I am hopeful that we are able to attract a quality pool of candidates who will be excited to take the reins of this program and get it back on track,” wrote Mattia in an email to the parents who signed the petition. 

This article was updated to update the total number of signatories on the parent petition calling for Coach Matt Garrett’s resignation. 

Author: Vincent DiFonzo

Vincent DiFonzo ’25 serves as Editor-in-Chief for the Gettysburgian. Vince is an IGS international affairs and history major with a political science minor. He served as Content Manager in Spring 2023 and as Opinions Editor and Lead Copy Editor for the Fall 2023 semester, before studying abroad in Berlin in Spring 2024. On-campus, he is the house leader for Public Policy House, an editor for the Gettysburg Social Science Review, a participant in Eisenhower Institute programs and Managing Editor of the Eisenhower Institute's Ike’s Anvil. Outside the Gettysburgian, Vince enjoys discovering new music, geography and traveling.

Author: Ella Prieto

Ella Prieto ’26 serves as the Managing Editor for the Gettysburgian. Previously, she worked as the News Editor, the Assistant News Editor, and as a staff writer for the News and Arts & Entertainment sections. Ella is a double major in Public Policy and Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies with a Writing Minor. On campus, Ella volunteers with the Casa Swim program, is an It’s On Us Fellow in the Office of Sexual Respect and Title IX, is a member of Alpha Omicron Pi, and is the President of the Panhellenic Council. She loves to read and keep up with celebrity drama in her free time.

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  1. Coach Garrett has a G-burg career record of 146-111-44, Excluding ties, that’s a career
    winning percentage of .568. Compare that to the current .181 winning percentage of of the G-burg DEI hire head football coach. If college sports isn’t about winning, then suspend ALL intercollegiate sports at Gettysburg and go ALL intramurals. Then everyone can just have some fun in the sports they are “passionate” about.

    In 1966, there was no womens’ soccer team. The mens’ team had 19 players. The current womens’ soccer team with its 2 wins has 35 players. Did someone change the rules of soccer–more players on the field at one time, longer periods?

    What is going on is that the Administration expanded the sizes of all the teams
    at Gettysburg so that students who have been playing for participation trophies all their lives wouldn’t have to face the indignity of being told that they weren’t good
    enough to make a college team. WOKE folk only do nice things! (Stuff happens and the earlier it occurs in life the better is the lesson so the aggrieved has time to find something else to do that they can be better at.)

    Then, after the snowflakes got little playing time or were told correctly by their coach that they suck, they called home to their Mommys and Daddys. The snowflake parents all got together and came after the soccer coach who has had his job for 17 years. Where were the problems before then?

    The end result will be when the snowflakes graduate with inflated self-esteems and get their first job (maybe), the parents won’t be able to fire the snowflake’s employer when the employer acts the same way as Coach Garrett, and instead the SNOWFLAKE will get fired, and come home to live with Mommy and Daddy.

    And the snowflake and her parents will live happily ever after..,,on the parents’
    dime.

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  2. From a parent’s perspective, Coach Matt Garrett’s job is to build a winning soccer team for Gettysburg College. However, he not only focused on the team as a whole, he challenged each woman to be their best as an individual player and a collaborative teammate. I saw this first hand during the 4 years my daughter played on the team.

    Was the decision to end Matt Garrett’s career based on Gettysburg College need for donations to the soccer program? Was there adequate staffing to support the junior varsity program that benefited enrollment? What is the standard coach-student ratio? What is a realistic number of players on a D3 college roster?

    This article fails to include countless positive experiences of BULLETS during Coach Garrett’s long tenure at Gettysburg College.

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  3. Our daughter played soccer for 4 years with Coach Garrett . He was an AMAZING coach who supported her for 4 seasons and beyond. He pushed her to believe in herself and to work hard for what she wanted – he didn’t hand ANYTHING to her on a silver platter. Was it difficult, stressful and trying at times for her because she was not always playing ? Yes, but he believed in her and knew what she was capable of. With his guidance, his belief in her and his feedback at the weekly meetings he helped her achieve her goals – she worked extremely hard to earn the right to play! He not only cared about how she was as a player, he cared about her overall health as an individual. The weekly meetings were helpful and very supportive. They discussed how she was doing academically, her well being from a mental health standpoint – yes, her overall health as a person – he cared! He was well aware of the pressures college students endure and he was there to support her on and off the field. With all her hard work and his support she was able to rise to be the best player she could be and because of this, she also helped her team be successful. In fact, not only is he an amazing coach – he is an amazing parent. He cared for his 2 young children, coached and supported the Gettysburg Girls Soccer Team and was able to create a very successful team! When our daughter was senior, the team made it to the NCAA’s…the first time in many years that they were able to achieve this honor!! That’s a sign and the PERFECT example of a successful and qualified coach! I am so incredibly sad and disheartened to hear that he has been attacked. We stand by him and not only are we grateful for the support, guidance that he extended to our daughter, but we have an immense amount of respect for him as a coach and a private person. So, here’s a message for those who attacked him….All coaches yell – get over it! What Coach Matthew Garrett can’t and will never get over, is what entitled parents have done to him! It’s disgusting and deplorable and selfish! Did you ever stop and think about what the outcome of what this attack would do to him and his family? – I think not. Your girls will be graduating within the next few years – what you have done to Coach Garrett will be out of your sight and out your mind, but your attack will stay with him and his family forever. However, we believe in him and because he is a strong, honorable man, we know he will be a successful coach at another college which will be well deserved but, it will be a huge loss to Gettysburg.

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  4. I’m a neutral party. I don’t have any ties to Gettysburg College. I’ve attended many athletic events at Gettysburg, McDaniel, York, Messiah, and Dickinson, because I like the competitiveness of D3 athletics. I have always found Gettysburg College women’s soccer to be entertaining. I’ve attended over 60 home matches over an extended period of time. Under Garrett, the team usually had a solid and defensive minded team. From the stands you certainly heard Garrett driving his team. Yeah, he yelled and verbally pushed performance and expectations, but that is what I expect a competitive college coach to do. There’s nothing I saw or heard from the stands that I would consider to be offensive or abusive. What’s going to happen now? Target Nate Davis because he yells? Or is he exempt because of the exceptional success of the women’s basketball team? Releasing Matt Garrett is a poor decision from my perceptive. I wish him well and hope he continues coaching soccer.

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  5. You’ll notice that this article has not been responded to by any of the current team’s parents or their daughters who were most recently playing under Matt Garrett. This leaves the door open for people to speculate based upon their own experiences, biases, and the like. As someone who has spoken with many of the current parents, I’d just like to say a few things without betraying any confidences.
    First, there’s more to the story than what is being reported in this publication (not at all the fault of the reporters, as this is just what was shared with them).
    Second, this is not the first time that parents and players have tried to have Matt Garrett removed as coach.
    Third, this was not just the parents and players who escalated Garrett’s behavior to school authorities, as I was informed that some staff had done so as well.
    Fourth, this is not about a coach who yells, as some have commented. There were morally objectionable tactics put in place by Garrett (for example, putting certain handpicked players in coach-appointed authority positions to get other players to open up to them, then reporting back to Garrett those words spoken in confidence) along with the well-reported condescending manner in which he abused his power over them.

    We’re talking about 30+ players who have played organized sports for well over a decade under numerous coaches on school and club teams. None of them are new to coaches who yell or play favorites. However, this situation was new to them, as it was contemptible. Not all 30+ players were treated this way, but all of the players were aware of the many who were mistreated, and witnessed it firsthand.

    I have not spoken with parents of former players, so I can’t say if this is who Garrett has always been, or if it’s just who he’s been in recent years. In the end, Matt Garrett is no longer the head coach nor part of the Gettysburg College community. Where he goes next and how he conducts himself are things I hope he considers well, as it would be sad and wrong for him to repeat his current behavior with another team of young players.

    As for those still think this is just players who were angry about lack of playing time and wanted to get rid of the coach, know that many multi-year starting players (and their parents) put their names on that petition. This was NOT your typical “kid complaining about their coach” situation.

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